20 vjet për të ngelur shtatzënë, por kur ndodhi jeta i ndryshoi (FOTO)

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Pics shows: Atifa Ljajic (left), her baby, Sheriff Nokic (right); A 60-year-old woman who gave birth to a baby girl after five rounds of fertility treatment has been dumped by her husband. Atifa Ljajic was left by her partner after beating the odds and getting pregnant after decades of trying. Serif Nokic, 68, decided to leave her on the day the baby arrived in Novi Pazar, south-western Serbia. He said he was worried newborn Alina would keep him up at night with her crying. When asked about abandoning new mum Atifa, Sheriff said: "She got what she wanted, now she is happy." Serif claims that living with a baby at his age would be too damaging to his health. Atifa also has health problems, including high blood pressure, but says she is ready to raise her daughter alone. Serif said: "Above all, I am a sick man, I am 68, I am a diabetic and I have a weak heart. "It is not easy not to sleep all night and to hear a babyís cry. Alina is the first child for Atifa although Sheriff already has children from his first marriage. Atifa claims that Sheriff wants to go back to Turkey where his children and grandchildren live. But Sheriff said: "I am still not sure that I will leave Novi Pazar but, no matter what, I want all the best for Atifa and Alina. "Wherever I am I will try to help them as much as I am able and I wish them luck." Atifa was considered a high-risk pregnancy and was in hospital for the three months leading up to her giving birth. Serif had repeatedly warned his wife about the dangers of carrying a baby at her age. But he claimed that he had along with the idea even though he had opposed the pregnancy at first. But as Atifa held Alina in her arms for the first time, Sheriff decided he did not want to be with his new family. Little Alina will not even have his last name as he refused to have her registered as his daughter. Mr Nokic says: "It is true that I didnít give Alina my name, because I am not her father." Atifa, who worked in a textile factory, says she will raise her baby by herself even though she has little money. She is a cousin of Rasim Ljajic, the Minister of Trade and Deputy Prime Minister of Serbia, but says she has no relatives who can help her. Atifa said: "Whatever happens, whether Serif stays or leaves, I will fight to raise Alina the best way I can and to put her on the right way. I will live only for her. "I know that it will not be easy but I still believe there are good people who will want to help me." As her 60th birthday neared, Atifa had almost given up hope of having children, when doctors told her she was finally expecting a baby following fertility treatment. Atifa fulfilled her lifelong dream when she successfully gave birth to a healthy baby girl. She added: "I knew it would be a big risk at my age, but my only wish in my life was that I have a child, and it happened to me. "I was not afraid of my life at all, God gave me courage. I have never felt better."

Kjo është historia sa e gëzueshme aq edhe e tr.ishtë e një gruaje, e cila prej 20 vitesh dëshironte shumë të kishte një fëmijë.

Atifa Ljajic u bë nënë në moshën 60 – vjeçare, por kur kjo më në fund ndodhi, bashkëshorti i saj e la.

Sipas asaj që shkruan “DailyMail”, 68 – vjecari Serif Noki ndryshoi mendje kur dëgjoi beben të qante në maternitet dhe i tha gruas se ishte tepër i plakur për t’u marrë me të qarat e fëmijës.

Ai vendosi që të largohej ditën kur bebja mbërriti në Novi Pazar, në Raska të Serbisë.

68 – vjeçari i tha bashkëshortes së tij Atifa se vajza e porsalindur do ta mbante zgjuar gjatë natës duke qarë.

Kur u përball me faktin se po br.aktiste nënën e re, gruan me të cilën kishte jetuar për vite me radhë, Serif tha: “Ajo mori atë që donte, tani është e lumtur”.

Sipas tij, të jetuarit me beben në këtë moshë do të ishte shumë e dëmshme për shëndetin e tij.

Rasti i Atifas u konsiderua si një shtatzëni e rre.zikshme dhe për këtë arsye ajo qëndroi në spital për tre muaj.

Serif deklaroi se e kishte pranuar zgjedhjen e gruas së tij për të vijuar me shtatzëninë, ndonëse fillimisht nuk kishte qenë dakord.

Megjithatë, kur Atifa mori në krahë vajzën e tyre Alina, Serif vendosi që nuk donte të ishte pjesë e familjes.

Vetë Atifa thotë se do ta rrisë e vetme foshnjen ndonëse nuk ka shumë para. “Çfarëdolloj gjëje të ndodhë, do ta rris Alinën në mënyrën më të mirë që mundem. Do të jetoj vetëm për të. E di që nuk do të jetë e lehtë, por besoj se ka ende njerëz të mirë që do të duan të më ndihmojnë”, shprehet gruaja

Ditëlindjen e saj të 60 -të Atifa thuajse kishte humbur shpresat për të patur fëmijë, kur mjekët i thanë se kishte mbetur shtatzënë, pas një trajtimi fertiliteti.